We tend to be busy all day and forgetting how to look nice and attractive to people we meet on the way. With this post, we have made list of ways you can adapt to look more better
It is more about your confidence and the way you carry yourself, the people you hang out with, and how you talk to people, along with many other things.
You should attract someone with the simplest of things, that’s what makes it more attractive, little did we know that just smiling or being around a crowd or letting out your sense of humor could be more attractive than the fancy clothes and layers of makeup we use.
Here are the 9 scientifically proven ways.
8. Be Funny
Having a good sense of humor tends to be among.
Many studies have shown that women are more attracted to men who can make them laugh. According to a study, a psychologist asked men to tell a joke to their friends at a bar while a woman sat at a nearby table, and it was concluded that the guys who told jokes were three times more likely to get her number than the people who didn’t.
Funny people are considered to be more intelligent and more social, this is what most women look for in their partner.
7. Surround yourself with friends
According to a 2014 study from the University of California, San Diego. It is actually a good strategy to have a few wingmen or wing-women, that their facial features and composure would outweigh others mode of behavior.
Our brains apparently take the faces of a group of people, making each face look more ‘average’ and attractive. This should definitely not be a too difficult task to hang out with friends.
6. Skip the small talk
A survey took place in a 1997 study by a psychologist in the University of New York, where he separated two groups of people and paired them off, giving each duo 45 minutes to answer a set of questions.
While one question set was small talk, and the other was increasingly developing, he found out that the people who asked deeper questions felt more connected and in that scenario a couple fell in love.
Talking about yourself stimulates the same brain regions as sex or a good meal, according to Harvard research.
5. Be a leader
Being a leader does not necessarily mean you have to act all bossy, but people are attracted to power.
A study in 2014 found that people in a group think that the group’s leader is more attractive than people who aren’t in the group. Similarly in a company, employees find the CEO more attractive than people outside the company.
An author Kevin Kniffin and his colleagues said that ‘In contrast with research traditions that treat physical attractiveness as a static trait, our findings highlight the importance of group membership as a lens for perceiving familiar leaders’ physical attractiveness.
4. Smile more
Do you think someone would fall for someone with a Stony face? In most situation, that would be a negative.
In Switzerland, two experiments were conducted where researchers examined the relationship between attractiveness and smiling. They found out that the stronger someone smiled, the more attractive a face looked.
- Be nice
The most important thing is to be nice to people.
In 2014 a Chinese study of 120 people found that when people hear about how nice somebody is, they find their faces more attractive.
Positive personality can promote facial attractiveness, on the other hand negative personality can reduce facial attractiveness. This might be the reason why it is said that personality characteristics may be linked to facial attractiveness.
- Live a high-status life/place
A man was photographed with a casual posture in a ‘high status’ luxury apartment and a ‘neutral status’ standard apartment context for a study in Cardiff Metropolitan University.
Much higher attractiveness rating was given to men with high status. There is an evolutionary element at work according to the researchers: men of high status appear more capable of taking care of a family, making them more attractive.
- Play good music
1500 women with an average age of 28 were asked by researchers to listen to simple and complex pieces of music and rate the attractiveness of the composer for a study from 2014.
It was found that women preferred the more complex music. A lecturer at University College, Dublin, author Benjamin Charlton, said that ‘The ability to create complex music could be indicative of advanced cognitive abilities‘ .
Consequently, women may acquire genetic benefits for offspring by selecting musicians able to create more complex music as sexual partners.’
So basically while you’re too busy wearing your best outfits and taking hours to do your makeup and hair, trying to look attractive, you’re really missing out on how to actually attract someone.
You can only attract a person with your looks for a while, but these are some of the things which portray your nature and it attracts people more when they see you have the qualities they look for in a person.